As for me, one of the way for me to spice up relationship is to respond to each other's successes in life. This is one of the most crucial factor in strengthening your relationship bond. Believe it or not, it may be more important than soothing life's aches and bruises.
Celebrating and praising your partner's promotion at work for instance, or your partner's excellent achievement in an examination gives him or her a great emotional boost. However, if u play it down, it can seriously undermine the realtionship.
With that, here are some ways i realized had been effectively motivating to celebrate your partner's victory...
- You should see your partner as an equal team member and always praise and encourage him or her in their success.. no matter how simple or prominent that success would be.
- Acknowledging every time of your partner takes a small step towards their goals. Waiting until the final outcome will be a little too late. In other words, ever willingly cheer on your partner consistently.
- Showing appreciation everytime your partner praises you. Instead of just saying thank you, why don't you give him or her a hug to show how appreciated you feel.
- Being a "mutual admiration couple" would be perfect. It is good to always say praises on the good things that each other has done. This can avoid you from talking bad about each other.
- I believe no one is perfect...and if you find it hard to be positive and compare yourself badly, look on the bright side of life, which is look at the relationship's other good values.
Where there is unconditional love, other things like patience, kindness, forgiving, tolerance and ultimate happiness comes in. Cherished your love ones and appreciate them no matter where they are..
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