English has always been my favourite lesson of the week after a whole bunch of 80% calculation+ 20% theory of my civil engineering subjects.. This is only lecture where i get to sit back, relax and enjoy my lesson without thinking too much on formulas and laws.
However, in English Lab today... I have discovered something very meaningful. It touches my heart and i felt how it actually surrounds our daily life. We were asked by our lecturer to be in a group of 5 members and we had to prepare a slide show on expressing our opinions. The topic of the opinion was:
Does everyone deserve a second chance?
After my group members and I share opinions on this topic... we strongly agree that everyone deserve a second chance..and i really emphasized on this.. YES! everyone deserve a second chance. I would like to share on my opinions and my friend's as well on giving SECOND CHANCE.
I feel that it hurts when someone u LOVE and TRUST betrayed you in one way or another. It is a human nature to failed each other and we can can never run away from making mistakes..
IMPERFECTION
perfectly describes us...human beings.
As a handmade of God, we must also able to FORGIVE each other. I believe God LOVES us so much that he forgives us from our sins and accept us in repentance. With that, we should be able to FORGIVE one another.
Everything happens for a REASON. Sometimes in life, someone we CARE about had DISOWNED our trust. Perhaps it's due to unavoidable circumstances which they leads them to failed us. Do accept their explanation in an OPTIMISTIC way and give them way to REPENT from their wrong doings. As a saying goes, HELPING others by FORGIVING is a way to help you by LEARNING from their mistakes.
Sometimes, we are stuck in a complicated situation which we cant help to handle but wait for the right time to settle everything..or in other words..to come clean. So yeah, life is not all about EMOTION but also based on SENSIBILITY.
There's a proverb saying:
Always be HUMBLE and GENTLE. Be PATIENT with others, making allowance for each others fault because of your LOVE.
HOWEVER...
If someone has betrayed your second chance...it is TIME for you to be more CAREFUL with him or her in the near future. This act eventually reflects his or her PERSONALITY. So, don't feel REGRET about giving him or her that precious chance..for you have learn and gain a lesson out of your KINDNESS.
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8 comments:
i totally agree with u Michelle.. everything has it own reason to be happen in daily life.
and it must be the reason why we have to keep it until everything is settled. and when someone tell the reason, we do not know whether is it true or not.
lagipun, kalu nk simpan smpai segala selesai janganlh kita memberi alasan laen.. lebih baek kita ckp, "i will tell u later".. rite? bukannyer.. "eh! mane ader.." "Eh! nothing laa"
Human has the brain.. God asked us to think of everyhing.. And absolutely Islam sendirik pon suruh menyiasat perkara yg dirungkap itu adalah benar atau tidak.. tambah2 lagi dalil atau hadis.. sebelum kita mengajar kpd org laen, make sure hadis itu adalah hadis yg sah. apatah lagi kata-kata manusia kn? ..
conclusion, second chance or another chance is always be opened to everyone.. tp mestilah disertakan dengan taubat yg bersungguh-sungguh *biar ikhlas*...
yes meor..i agree...sometimes we cant help on how we should express our reply..sometimes we tend to hide it or it comes out naturally.
so just make allowance for each other to make mistakes... we are not perfect.
n yes..honesty is always the best policy... so u should not make people wonder if u knew they are wrong about something.. just tell them the truth and make them realized their mistakes. and most importantly...learn frm their mistakes.
sometimes, things happen beyond our conscious. kita tidak sedar sesuatu pekara itu telah berlaku... dan kebenaran mengenai pekara itu akan daopat diketahui sekiranya kita saling faham-memahami dan jujur.
thnks for the comment anyway.
so, u consider ur word as a mistake?
mayb its a mistake....
perhaps not....
everything happens for a reason..and im sure there is an explanation behind wad had happen.
btw, people change ya? its part and parcel of life...
orite.. if u said like dat..
learn from mistake k..
sure meor..we all learn from mistakes..that's how we grow up to be a better person.
sorry if i ever hurt ur feelings in one way or another. i apologize to u.
i love dis post:)
hello chai hong..
thnks for visiting my blog. how r u doin?
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